There are some absolutely beautiful images of babies being born out there on the internet, so maybe you’rve considered hiring a birth photographer.
Here are some things you might like to considerâŠ
Costs of a birth photographer
At first glance, having a professional photographer at your birth sounds expensive. Usually, a birth photographer costs $1000-2000, and itâs not rare to pay up to $3000. If youâre already paying out of pocket for other birth preparation programs or supports â such as a private midwife or doula â it may become pricy to have a birth photographer as well.
However, itâs important to consider that most photographersâ birth packages include a lot! They often put their lives on hold to be on call for you, will meet with you before your birth to get to know you and what you want from them, and may be at your birth for hours and hours. Sometimes they even include âextrasâ like mini maternity or newborn photo shoots. A good birth photographer will be a supportive part of your birth team.
The impact of having a birth photographer in your birth space.
On that note, itâs important to consider the impact of having a photographer in your birth space. Itâs hard to know in advance how youâll feel, but you may like to consider whether youâll want absolute privacy, or whether you only want immediate family members at your birth. Some women find that having a birth photographer present is distracting or unnatural. There is no right or wrong; itâs different for everyone â and different photographers have different energies that they bring to the birth space, so itâs always worth meeting someone in advance.
It’s also hard to place a real âvalueâ on having photos of your birth. Some women love looking back on these moments, while to others it just isnât important. Some women want to share their birth photos with their friends, families, and online communities â and others want them just for themselves. Still, many would prefer to share newborn photos instead!
If affordability is the only thing holding you back, you could chat to a birth photographer about the possibility of being on a payment plan. You could also ask your doula (if you have one) to take some amateur photos (though some doulas take amazing photos!), or even a friend or family member. You could let this person know in advance of anything you definitely do or donât want documented.
Sharing birth photos
If youâre considering sharing your birth photos â whether with your close family or even more widely online â itâs important to think about the implications. On a very positive note, itâs wonderful that there are so many photos of all different kinds of birth out there normalizing the range of birth experiences that women have. Birth photography celebrates womenâs power and this transformative rite of passage.
However, it is perfectly fine if you keep your birth sacredly private. There are many reasons that you may wish to keep any birth photos just to yourself, and you can trust yourself to make that decision.
Whatever you decide about birth photography, there is no right or wrong choice. Itâs worth considering if youâre curious because youâd rather not regret missing out.
Photography is a way we can almost step back in time to witness ourselves becoming mothers. And itâs a compelling way to show the power and beauty of birth.
A Byron Bay local, trusted birth and maternity photographer and midwife of 10 years Kate Elise
An Ocean Shores local, trusted birth photographer, birth doula, and breastfeeding counsellor Zandra Warland
International Association of Professional Birth Photographers